Sarah Smith’s Path to Healing

Hey you, I want to get annoyed. I want to throw a little tantrum and roll around on the floor because I didn’t get the crisps that I wanted. I want to ball my fists and pout like there is no tomorrow… and you know what? I can do that! You know what truly annoys…

Hey you, I have never really written anything that is funny. I think that is an absolute shame because you can be so hilarious! You crack people up just by being yourself. You make people laugh without even trying. Yet you only really show that deeply reflected person here. You only really show that side…

Hey you, I feel abandoned. I want to say it’s because of the “40-Year-Rule” but I think it’s deeper… I know that when you say that we will start looking for a husband in 40 years, you don’t mean that we will only allow ourselves to have a husband in 40 years’ time. I know…

Hey you, I used the last posts to build myself up because I was feeling very down. I felt down because of the topic “relationship”. In my last post I talked about letting go of the things that I identified with to give me worth and “girlfriend” was one of those things that I have…

Hey you, I am actually really proud of where we are. It seems like you are building true friendships with people you can rely on and trust. And the most beautiful part is that you are not shutting them out, changing yourself for them, or keeping a distance. You are meeting people who have boundaries…

Hey you, I have to admit that I am actually a little annoyed at you/me/us. You made such a big deal about healing those wounds of dating and relationships. You made such a big deal about who it is that we want to be with and how he should be. Just for you to turn…

Hey you, You asked me a lot of accusing questions a few days ago. You also said that you needed to feel that for a while, so I let you. I am noticing, however, that those questions about your love life are also starting to affect other parts of life, so I wanted to respond…

Hey you, I am frustrated right now because I feel like the perfect partner is never going to find me and I am just wasting time on everything. I feel like everything I do is useless because it hasn’t led me to him yet. Why am I even bothering? Why am I even trying? It’s…