Category: Being Me
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40 Years
Hey you, I used the last posts to build myself up because I was feeling very down. I felt down because of the topic “relationship”. In my last post I talked about letting go of the things that I identified with to give me worth and “girlfriend” was one of those things that I have…
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Awe-Inspiring
Hey you, I am actually really proud of where we are. It seems like you are building true friendships with people you can rely on and trust. And the most beautiful part is that you are not shutting them out, changing yourself for them, or keeping a distance. You are meeting people who have boundaries…
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Yes, No, Maybe
Hey you, I have to admit that I am actually a little annoyed at you/me/us. You made such a big deal about healing those wounds of dating and relationships. You made such a big deal about who it is that we want to be with and how he should be. Just for you to turn…
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Discombobulated
Hey you, You asked me a lot of accusing questions a few days ago. You also said that you needed to feel that for a while, so I let you. I am noticing, however, that those questions about your love life are also starting to affect other parts of life, so I wanted to respond…
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Amidst the Storm
Hey you, I am frustrated right now because I feel like the perfect partner is never going to find me and I am just wasting time on everything. I feel like everything I do is useless because it hasn’t led me to him yet. Why am I even bothering? Why am I even trying? It’s…
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Now and Then
Hey you, I feel like we need to compare ourselves today. I feel like we need to remind ourselves how far we’ve come. So, let’s compare ourselves to this time last year. Last year, we started a job that we really wanted to do because we hoped it would fulfil us and give us what…
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Seeing Me
Hey you, In my last letter to you, I asked you a few questions and you told me that the reason why you don’t want a relationship right now is because you don’t feel like you are enough. I would like to dig a little deeper if that’s ok with you. Right now, I just…
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Starting again
Hey you, I just realised that I haven’t posted anything or talked to you in two weeks. I am truly sorry about that. There have been a lot of changes these last two weeks, and I didn’t really feel a need to post. I use this platform to help me think through things and to…
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New Era
Hey you, We finally did it! We didn’t just write but also published our first book! I am so proud of you! You are truly starting to live the life that you want, and you’re not sabotaging it like you used to! You don’t make rash decisions anymore just because you think you have to…
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Breaking
Hey you, It feels like today is the day for hopes and dreams to die. You wanted to get emotional… so here it is. Today is the day that we are starting to truly let go of all the hopes and dreams that have brought us to this point. I am so grateful for these…
Sarah Smith’s Path to Healing 